I love talking, willing to have a conversation with others. I believe communication is the most direct, comfort (maybe sometimes not), and a convenient way to express one's thoughts and feeling. And at the same time, we accept message through feedbacks. However, having started a good conversation with others could be very difficult, the way you speak is reflecting your personality and eventually affect how other looks upon you. Rather simply state that "communication is the transmission of messages", I would say that the communication is a life lesson that no one could fully manage. As for speaking, some ancients have a saying that is worth to learn. Before you say a word, you should ask yourself three questions: First, is the information true or false, is there any factual basis? If it is true, then go for the second question: what is the effect? If you believe in positive results, ask a third question: Did I say this in good faith or just to show my own unique opinion? When you've finished asking three questions and you feel like what you're going to say is true, good-natured and useful, say it. One day, I want to try the effect of this trick. It turns out that is a very good way to become mute. In real life, aren't that many people are shackled by this invisible rules of the language, and they might infected this " silently plagued " by these sets of problems?